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Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R

The Theory of Multiple Intelligences and Smart Dating

When it comes to dating, we may dismiss people who aren’t intelligent in the same way we are which is unfortunate since different types of intelligence can be complementary. How can you start thinking outside of the box you’ve drawn?

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Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R

How Soon Is Too Soon To Move In Together?

According to a relationship therapist in NYC, the answer isn’t as simple as you’d think. But here’s a hint: it doesn’t matter how long you’ve been dating.

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Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R

Attachment Styles and How They Affect Relationships

Have you ever wondered why you approach relationships differently than other people do? It’s probably because of your attachment style. Your attachment style—which is primarily influenced by…

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Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R

Are Fantasies Healthy Or Harmful? A Therapist Weighs In

If you’ve been daydreaming a lot, we have good news: the kind of fantasizing most people engage in is perfectly normal. In fact, we often recommend our patients give themselves permission to engage in adaptive (healthy) daydreaming to help them process difficult emotions and manage destructive impulses.

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Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R

Navigating The Divisive World Of Dating And Politics

The United States is incredibly divided politically with no sign of improving anytime soon. Since moral differences underpin most hot-button issues, the political division in this country is affecting the dating landscape…

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Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R

Tips For Managing Stress At Work Post-Lockdown

As anxiety therapists, we are sometimes asked how to destress after work. It's a legitimate question since many people have stressful jobs and don't want their anxiety to carry over into their personal lives…

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Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R

Not Your “Type”? Is That Kind of Mindset a Barrier When Dating?

How many times have you heard a friend (or yourself) say, “Oh, s/he’s not my type” as a means of dismissing a potential candidate for dating? While it is certainly important to know your absolute deal-breakers, being so quick to “typecast” may significantly reduce your chances of connecting with a phenomenal partner.

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Iris Vargas-Pagan, LCSW-R Iris Vargas-Pagan, LCSW-R

A Latina Therapist’s Take On Why Encanto Is So Popular

Disney’s animated film Encanto—which tells the story of a magical family living in Colombia—has been VERY well-received. It brought in $246 million at the box office and has been nominated for more than a dozen awards, including an Academy Award for Best Animated Feature. If you haven’t seen it yet, you may be wondering why Encanto is so popular…

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Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R

The Pros And Cons Of Virtual Marriage In NYC

Virtual marriage is trending in NYC. Lots of people are getting married online, and it’s easy to see why. Virtual ceremonies are far cheaper and easier to plan, and they eliminate a lot of drama. As much as we love the idea, virtual marriage isn’t for everyone…

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Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R

5 Tips For Artists And Entertainers Facing Uncertainty

As therapists for artists, actors, and musicians, we are often asked how to deal with uncertainty about the future. That's not surprising considering the lack of stability and competitive nature of gig-based work. Artists often doubt whether their works will be well-received…

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Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R

Age-Gap Relationships: What Your Attraction Might Be Telling You

If there’s a new man in your life, you may be wondering whether he’s “the one”—or whether you’ll just end up getting hurt. You might also wonder whether friends and family will like him and whether he can help you accomplish your relationship goals…

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Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R Erin McMaugh Tierno, LCSW-R

Busy Professionals: How to Unwind After Work

During our work as therapists and executive coaches, we’ve helped many entrepreneurs, executives, and busy professionals cope with work-related anxiety. One of the most common questions these individuals ask is how to de-stress and unwind after a long day of work…

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